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Speeches

The speeches are a traditional, sentimental affair and the good news is that if the bride cares to (and her mum, or even the chief bridesmaid for that matter) she may offer a toast as well as the best man, groom and father of the bride.

The toasts and speeches are traditionally given in this order (the best man calls for the first speech or the toastmaster calls for each one):

The bride's father: Welcomes son-in-law into the family. Gives advice to the newly-weds and then toasts their health and happiness.

The groom: On behalf of himself and his new wife thanks everyone for coming and for their good wishes and gifts. Thanks both sets of parents and all those who helped with the arrangements. Toasts the bridesmaid and attendants and distributes gifts to those who are to receive more than a verbal 'thank you'.

The bride: though not strictly traditional often the bride may decide that she wants to make a speech, if so it should take place after the groom's.

The best man: Responds on behalf of the bridesmaids. Reads messages from absent friends and relatives. Goes on to talk about the groom in what can be the highlight - or in some cases lowlight - of the wedding speeches!